Nocturnal
downpour
Wakes the lovers,
Floods the valley.
Making
love is natural. Why be ashamed of it?
That seems simple, but it is
actually a great challenge in these
complex times. Too many other layers of meaning have been imposed upon
sex. Religions straitjacket it, ascetics deny it, romantics glorify it,
intellectuals theorize about it, obsessives pervert it. These actions
have nothing to do with lovemaking. They come from fanaticism and
compulsive behavior. Can we actually master the challenge of having
lovemaking be open and healthy?
Sex should not be used as leverage,
manipulation, selfishness, or
abuse. It should not be a ground for our personal compulsions and
delusions.
Sexuality is an honest reflection
of our innermost personalities, and
we should ensure that its expression is healthy. Making love is
something mysterious, sacred, and often the most profound interaction
between people. Whether what is created is a relationship or pregnancy,
the legacy of both partners will be inherent in their creation. What we
put into love determines what we get out of it.
lovemaking
365
Tao
daily
meditations
Deng
Ming-Dao (author)
ISBN
0-06-250223-9